Graham’s Schedules

0-4 weeks
Basically on a 3 hour schedule, with cluster feeding in the evening (nursing about every 1.5-2 hours). Some feeds are only 2.5 hours apart during the day, but mostly going 3 hours between feeds.

6:00 nurse (35-40 minute waketime)
9:00 nurse (40-45 minutes waketime)
12:00 nurse (40-45 minutes waketime)
3:00 nurse (40-45 minutes waketime)
5/5:30 nurse
*it gets a little hairy after this feeding. He won’t always settle and nap well. I typically feed him 1-2 more times before the final feeding. He has a witching hour. I have found wearing him in a baby carrier helps. He’ll nap in the carrier, but he won’t nap in a crib or swing during these hours.
8/8:30 nurse, immediately followed by bedtime (no waketime)
1-2 middle of the night feedings (which I have to wake him for sometimes)

5-6 weeks
7:00 nurse (45 minute waketime)
10:00 nurse (50-60 minute waketime)
1:00 nurse (50-60 minute waketime)
4:00 nurse (60 minute waketime)
6:00 nurse (no nap but might snooze in baby carrier)
8:00 nurse, immediately followed by bedtime (no waketime)
1 middle of the night feeding around 2-4am

3 Months
7:00 Nurse
8:30-10:00 Nap
10:00 Nurse
11:30-1:00 Nap
1:00 Nurse
2:30-4:00 Nurse
4:00 Nurse
5:30-6/6:15 Catnap in swing
6:15 nurse
7:45 Nurse, followed by bed
1-2 MOTN feedings

 3.5-4 Months
7:30 Nurse
9:00-11:00 Nap
11:00 Nurse
12:30-2:30 Nap
2:30 Nurse
4:00-4:45/5 Nap
4:45/5 Nurse
7:00 Nurse. followed by bed
Dreamfeed around 10 bottle 2-4oz
4.5 Months
7:30 Nurse
9:00-11:00 Nap
11:00 Nurse
1-2:30 Nap
2:30 Nurse
4:30-5/5:30 Nap
5/5:30 Nurse
7:30 Nurse. followed by bed
Dreamfeed around 10 bottle 2-4oz
5 Months
7:30 Nurse
9:30-11:30 Nap
11:30 Nurse
1:30-3:00 Nap
3:00 Nurse
5:00-5:30/6 Catnap
5:30/6 Nurse
7:45 Nurse+ 2-40z extra breastmilk in bottle, followed by bedtime
6 Months
Weaned him from his Velcro swaddle to a woombie swaddle this month
7:00 Nurse
9:00-10:45/11 Nap
11:00 Nurse & Solids (3 tbsp)
1:30-3:00 Nap
3:00 Nurse
5:30-6:15 Nap
6:15 Nurse & Solids (6 tbsp)
8:00 Nurse, followed by bedtime

7 Months
7:00 Nurse
9:00-10:30 Nap
11:00 Nurse & Solids
1:30-3:30 Nap
3:30 Nurse & Solids
5:30 Finger Foods while family eats
7:00 Nurse, Followed by bedtime

8 Months
7:30 Nurse & Cheerios
9:30-10:30 Nap
11:00 Nurse
12:00 Solids
1:30-3:30/4:00 Nap
4:00 Nurse
5/5:30 Solids
7:00 Nurse, followed by bedtime


Haydon’s Schedules

Note: I am not getting active in my blog again. I just wanted a place to keep Haydon’s schedules so that I could come back and reference them. I created a schedule tab at the top of the blog so that I, or anyone, could easily reference the schedules that I have kept with my children. I find myself looking at them frequently as Haydon has been an infant. Haydon is in the mist of making that gradual change towards one nap right now, hence why I am revisiting the schedules of my children.

2 Months/10 weeks
Haydon has silent reflux. We just put him on Axid about 1.5 weeks ago. Prior to medication, he did not really have a schedule. The medication has helped to get him on a schedule, thankfully!! His naps are still a work in progress. He typically wakes up 45 mintues into his naps (80% of the time) and cries for about 10-20 minutes before he finally goes back to sleep to finish out the nap. But I see this as huge progress because prior to the medication I had a very hard time getting him to to go back to sleep after 45 minutes of sleep.

7:30 Nurse
8:40- 10:30 Nap

10:30 Nurse
11:45-1:30 Nap

1:30 Nurse
2:45-4:00 Nap

4:00 Nurse
5:15-6:00 Nap

6:00 Nurse
7:30 Bottle of pumped milk, Followed by bedtime

1 MOTN Feeding around 5am (stopped at 12 weeks)

3 Months
7:30 Nurse
8:50-10:30 Nap (WT length changed @15 weeks so naps starts at 9am now)
10:30 Nurse
12:00-1:30 Nap
1:30 Nurse
3:00-4:30 Nap
4:30 Nurse
6:00-6:45 Nap
6:45 Nurse
7:45 Bottle (6-7oz), Followed by Bedtime between 8/8:15pm

***Around 15 weeks, his WT length started to increase and his schedule is kind of wonky right now, but it was very solid before 15 weeks.

4 Months
7:00 Nurse
8:30-10:30 Nap
10:30 Nurse
12:15-2:15 Nurse
2:15 Nurse
4:00-5:30 Nap
5:30 Nurse
6:30 Solids (did not add solids until he was 4.5 months old)
7:30 8.5oz Bottle (BM), followed by bed***This was a rough month. He stopped STTN for about 3 weeks due to a mega growth spurt. When I started to feed solids at bedtime, he finally started to STTN again. For about 1.5 weeks he was waking up early out of naps hungry so our schedule during the day was off for about 1.5 weeks due to the growth spurt and I was feeding more often. It was a wonder week season, wonder week 19, so I would say that between 16-19 weeks things were just not prefect, but not horrible.***
5 months
@ 5.5 Months- Sleeps un-swaddled at night, but still swaddled for naps.
7:00 Nurse
9:00-10:30/10:45 Nap
11:00 Nurse & Solids (2-3 tbsp)
1:00-2:45/3:00 Nap
3:00 Nurse
5:00-5:45/6:00 Cat Nap
6:00 Nurse & Solids (4-5 tbsp)
8:00 8.5oz Bottle pumped breastmilk, followed by bed(I pump at 8 & 10pm to keep supply)
6 Months:
Haydon is still on Axid for reflux twice a day. Still swaddled for naps but unswaddled at night.
7:00 nurse
9-10:30 nap (I need to wake him so he’ll take a 2 hour afternoon nap)
11:00 nurse, solids
1-3:00 nap
3:00 nurse
5-6:00 nap
6:00 nurse, solids
8:00 bottle (6-8oz), followed by bed
Usually asleep by 8:30
I pump at 10pm and use that milk for his bedtime bottle.7 Months:
7 months was not-so-fun :( He got his first two teeth, reflux flared, eczema flared, wonky schedule due to inconsistent catnap.
Here is how the schedule sort of rolled out this month…
6:30ish wake up
7:00 nurse, solids
9:00-10:45/11 nap
11:00 nurse, solids
1:30-3/3:30 nap (wakes closer to 3)
3/3:30 nurse, solids
5:30-6:00 catnap
6:00 nurse, finger foods
7:30 nurse, followed by bed but does not fall asleep until close to 8:30If he does not catnap his afternoon schedule looks like this instead:
5:30/6 nurse, finger foods
7:00 nurse,followed by bed
But if he goes to bed at 7:00pm he wakes up earlier at 6am and it really messes up the start to the day.He misses a morning nap due to church on Sunday. He sometimes catnap in the church nursery, but not always. Then on Tuesday and Thursday I have to drop-off (9:15am) and pick-up my older kids at preschool (1:00), which has really messes with the start of the morning nap. All in all, this month has been rough :(8 Months
7:00 Nurse, Solids
9:30/9:45-11:00 Nap
11:00 Nurse, Solids
1:50 Nurse
2:00-4:00 Nap
4:00 Nurse, Solids
5:30/6:00 Finger Foods while family eats dinner
7:00 Bath
7:30 Nurse, Followed by bed
10:00/10:30 Dreafeed 4-6oz pumped Breastmilk9 Months/10 Months
7:45/8:00 Nurse, Breakfast
10-11 Nap (at 10 months, I found I started to shorten this morning nap to 10-10:45 or his afternoon nap started to get shortened)
12:00 Nurse, Lunch
2-4 Nap
4:00 Nurse, Snack
6:00 Dinner
7:45/8 Nurse, Followed by bed (sometimes offer an additional 2-4oz of breastmilk if he is still acting like he wants more milk)

Last Post

I have decided that I am not longer going to be adding new posts to my blog. I am a Christian, and I am currently going through a bible study called “No Other Gods” by Kelly Minter. During the course of this study, God has revealed to me that my blogging and involvement with on-line discussion boards needed to take backseat for a while or indefinitely. I am spending too much time checking my blog stats, even though I don’t blog as much as I use to. This particular blog, “Bloggin’ About Babies,” became an “idol” to me, in the sense that it was robbing God of his glory. Instead, I was more concerned about receiving the glory and praise by other people who frequented and read my blog. I am glad that this blog has helped some people out, but I am not the only blogger out there blogging about these things. God also has humbled me and made me realize that having the “prefect” baby schedule and having the “appearance” of having it all together with children who are complaint, well behaved, and sleep well is not the goal here. My goal in life is the glorify my Heavenly Father, God. So please read all my suggestions for discipline, sleep training, feeding, and other baby and toddler advice and take away what might seem helpful, but just remember that in the end, the only thing that matters is that we spend our day trying to glorify God through our actions and thoughts. Anything inherently good in our lives can turn into an “idol” for us. For me, blogging robbed me of time with God, my family, and friends. Blogging stole the praise and glory from God and place it in my own lap. But anything can turn into an idol, for you it may be your iphone eating up your time, or maybe it is your unhealthy preoccupation with being fit, or having the perfect family. But I know that God will not tolerate other gods in my life. So I am laying this blog down so I can make room for God. Idols rob us of the life God has given us, which the bible says is “life to the full”. John 10:10 “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.” For me the thief is the internet, blogging, and chat boards. I thank God for showing me how negative these things have become in my life. My prayer is that if you are personally struggling with letting go of something holding you back from the life God has promised you, life to the full, that you would dare to let it go. I promise that God will not leave you empty handed!

Thanks for reading my blog.

Birth Order

Have you ever wondered how the birth order of your children will impact their personality, their success, their struggles in life? This idea has been playing on my mind a lot lately. Now that I have 4 children (3.5 year old son, 2 years old twins daughters, and 4 month old son) I have been noticing a lot of difference in how I parent my different children and how they all are so unique. I am reading a book called, Making Children Mind without Losing Yours by Kevin Leman, which is a great book on discipline by the way. But in the book, Dr. Leman briefly discusses the effect of birth order on children and their behavior. I think understanding birth order has made me more aware of what I need to work on with all of my children. I found a pod cast by Focus on the Family called “The Impact of Birth Order”. During this prodcast, Dr. Leman gives a short description of each birth order. I encourage you to check out the pod cast. I also plan on checking Dr. Leman’s book out entitled “The Birth Order Book“.

I have started the process of teaching my 3.5 year old how to read. I have really enjoyed teaching Cooper how to read so far. I plan on sharing some of the strategies and lessons that I am teaching Cooper on my other blog “Teaching Toddlers and Preschoolers”. If any of you have preschoolers and want to check out my blog, I hope to update it with something at least 2-3 times a week.

Dropping the 4th Nap

My son Haydon just turned 4 months old today! Yippy! I am finally out of the land of newborn-hood and on to baby land! Along with Haydon’s 4 month birthday, he also dropped his 4th nap. I knew it was time to adjust his schedule because his 3rd of 4th nap of the day were just brief catnaps and no longer than 45 minutes each.

From 9 weeks- 15 weeks, Haydon’s schedule looked like this:
8:20-10:00 Nap
1o:00 Nurse
11:30-1:00 Nap
1:00 Nurse
2:30-4:00 Nap***
4:00 Nurse
5:30-6:15 Catnap***
6:15 Nurse
7:30 Bottle of expressed milk, followed by bedtime

***However, from 15-16 weeks his 3rd nap of the day went from being 1.5 hours long to only 45 minutes long. I played around with his waketime, but that still did not fix the nap length. I also noticed that Haydon was not nursing as much every 3 hours so I thought it might be good to try and extend his schedule to eat every 3.5-4 hours, except in the evening when I cluster feed. Extending the schedule worked. It got rid of the 4th nap and he is nursing better. Also, by extending the scheduled feedings, Haydon started taking a longer nap!

Haydon’s new schedule at 4 months (17 weeks old)
7am Nurse
8:30-10:30 Nap
10:30 Nurse
12:15/20-2:15 Nap
2:15 Nurse
4:00-5:00 Nap
5:00 Nurse
7:00 Nurse +Bottle of Expressed milk, followed by bedtime


My twins got a floor puzzle that I love! It is the Infantino Counting & Shapes Floor Puzzle. I have used it to teach their numbers 1-10, colors, and shapes. Here is a video of the girls playing a short activity to find shapes and numbers on the puzzle. I like to call out a number, a shape, or a color and the girls have to put their small plastic animal on that part of the puzzle. We also build the puzzle together, which helps with their spacial relationships and fine motor skills. Also while we building the puzzle, we discuss the shapes and colors of the shapes. We also make sure we put the numbers in order (but this is a skill the girls are still trying to acquire). I would say this puzzle is a great learning tool for any toddler or preschooler trying to learn their shapes, colors, and numbers.